Girls Night Vs Guilt

Well I understand that moms need time away from the husband and the kids. However, what do we do with the guilt that comes with such pleasures? Some will say that they rather take time off and do something at home and technically not be away. How helpful is that? I had tried to step away from my duties and "relax" and guess what.... My mommy brain doesn't turn off that easily. I think it's healthier and better to step out of the house. Now I am a new mom so I need baby steps. I can't just take off to a weekend getaway with the girls (although it sounds so tempting at times).

The guilt (The monster) that nags in your head saying how horrible it is to be away especially if you are a working couple and the child is in daycare! How terrible it is to pick up your baby from daycare and disappear!!!! Right? At least that's what my "monster" tells me!

I had to ignore that little voice and remind myself what kind of a mom will I be if I don't care for my sanity. A small girls' night out helps me recharge and reminds me that I am still me (perhaps a better me). And I also keep in mind that my baby will love me regardless because I am her mom. I feel less stressed out and more put together when I take time for myself and daddy CAN take care of her! If you are a single mom make sure you find a support system. Become part of a group where you can exchange date nights and swap babysitting duties!! It's worth it and super affordable (or free). Give it a try and see how you feel! I am taking baby steps so I suggest you do as well!